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It is just that they are so factual, so direct and tend to focus on the message, rather than the person who is receiving it.They tend to be more action oriented than readers of people and situations and so to get the attention of an ESTJ will require clarity and facts, not trying the subtle approach as the ESTJ may just steamroller on, but believing they are doing the right thing.They like things to be done the proper way, and have little patience for unconventional approaches.They like to be recognized for their hard work and dedication.On the other hand, if they have not made a commitment, they will view the relationship as a practical, structured involvement.
The ESTJ is primarily traditional and really do place a premium on family values, etc and they are genuinely helpful and caring.
The ESTJ is outspoken, a person of principles, which are readily and directly expressed.
ESTJs are not afraid to stand up for what they believe is right even in the face of overwhelming odds.
Direct and factual the ESTJ may inadvertently upset others who are more feeling as they see honesty and incredible directness as the same thing and so may at times project an honesty that is brutal.
Conflict is all part of getting things done and so the ESTJ will not let it affect them nor harbour ill feelings.